She is now a real person with identity, emotions and calculated soft spots. It does require you to set golden rules and to always treat the end of the zone as an absolute limit.
Every date has two sides, or two parties if you like. From my side I will never lose sight of the commercial aspect and will always do my utmost to deliver a service of consistent quality. After all, the client chooses you for the service you offer which is unique in combination with you as an individual. Of course there are those who just want plain sex with a female and don’t care too much about a total package which corresponds to a specific fantasy. Those are almost never the ones who book your companionship for several hours or for an overnight stay.
Consistency in quality is not always easy. We are still human beings with personal emotions and ups and downs in our lives. Whenever you are experiencing strong emotions or grief in your private life, it will take a substantial amount of effort to release yourself temporarily and not take those emotions into your buffer zone contaminating it. In the end, you are a professional entertainer and you want to prevent your client from being burdened by your private-life troubles.